Opinions aren't fixed, of course. My opinion about rural life is a culmination of many things in my recent life:
(1) Like most city apartment-dwellers I am starved of all the things I got in my VT home: a huge kitchen, multiple rooms - a room for every function!, a kitchen table, a TV, multiple floors and 2 pellet stoves. (Maybe this could wear off with time, as I start to crave culture and chaos?). Similarly, I am NATURE starved!!!
(2) I may feel differently if I were single, at least about the likelihood of meeting guys given the lack of things to do. But at the same time, what a nightmare dating in NY can be. People are friendlier here if there are less of them.
(3) There is another more elusive factor which has to do with my early life in VT in a rural area. While I was here, I visited my old house in Colchester. There is feeling I get when I look at the horse farm at the end of my old street, the expanse of land, sky and skyline - a few steps from our door! A calm feeling, that links me to other points in my life when I felt similarly calm. I know there is a root there that grows a feeling in me, which feels good.
For now, suburban visits and NY life, but hope is ahead...